How to make decisions

Indecisive? Don't worry you are not the only one. Many of us fall victim to the lack of certainty when concerning various aspects of our lives. Whether it is to pick a life partner, choose a career path or order lunch, it sometimes feels like an overwhelming abundance of choice that results in our inability to pick just one of the options.

Below are my tips for getting you through the confusion:

1) Weigh up how you would feel about this decision if you were a parent or an older version of yourself.

2) Would you be proud to admit that you did it? If the answer is yes, then go ahead with your plan.

3) What do the hoards say and what do your closest friends say? Try to blur out the masses and listen to those that know you best. They will steer you in the right direction.

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