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A test for true love


Don’t fall in love with someone who says the right things, fall in love with someone who does the right things.

Robert Tew


This rule applies to every relationship you have in life, not necessarily just your significant other. It really does work. A person's true feelings are often more than what they express verbally, it's just hard sometimes to try and look for those other signs because the words come so easily and are much louder and more obvious to digest. But look closely and pay attention to how a person treats you to learn how they really feel about you. I hate to admit it but the cliche of actions speak louder than words is totally accurate here.

I hope you all find someone out there that shows you just the way they feel. 

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